Makes us look at a person differently. Even if in everyday life we quarrel, experience negative emotions and even think about radical measures, then after a breakup, albeit a short one, all the anger goes away, giving way to melancholy and sadness. We miss someone who was close to us just recently. We miss you and want to do everything in our power to make the separation a thing of the past. Rest assured, your loved one feels the same, and if you send him beautiful themed poems, he will only be even more convinced of your mutual love.
Believe me, no matter what character your boyfriend has, he will still like poetry. They simply cannot help but evoke vivid emotions and feelings, because they always hit the nail on the head. At least those that we offer you are able to awaken the warmest feelings in him.
Vlio.ru is a great opportunity to express your emotions. This is a lot of beautiful poems on any topic. These are free options and always available. Don’t be silent about your experiences and tell farewell poems to your loved one when parting. He will definitely appreciate such a gesture on your part.
I don't love you anymore, I'm sorry!
And I understand that it’s painful for you to hear.
Don't blame me, just let me go
We'll never get closer again.
I'm sorry that I lied for so long,
I didn’t talk about the feelings that were gone.
I honestly gave you my heart,
But life is cruel - I still fell out of love.
Do you want to know the answers? But why?
They will only make you very sad.
You don't owe me anything anymore
After all, everything has passed, and my heart is now empty.
Yes, you will remain dear to me forever,
Your image will forever be in my heart.
Believe me, all the pain will be taken away by the years,
After all, we cannot escape fate.
The best way out, I understand, is separation -
There is no point in continuing a bad play.
And the extinguished radiance of former love
It’s hardly worth bringing back to life again.
Only the heart is not capable of command
Vivid feelings are forgotten without a trace.
Be patient a little, and soon, but not right away,
I will finally be able to stop loving.
I don't want to say goodbye to you
But it’s clear that this is forever,
Which means we need to separate
And let melancholy scream in your eyes.
Your family is most important
Not like me, all alone
And I don't hope for anything
You won't jump higher, no luck.
Don't remember me, don't
I will live as before, before you,
Only the pleasure will remain in the memory,
Which you gave me.
Our first evening is scattered with stars,
And the river quietly whispers to you about love.
This night I will light our first candles:
Finally, I submitted to fate.
I don’t want to part with you, I don’t want to.
Tears quietly flow down your cheeks and onto your chest.
Okay – I don’t know anything about you.
At parting I won’t shout to you: “Don’t forget!”
Years flew by, I didn’t have time to notice.
I have an adult son and a beautiful daughter.
How I wanted to meet you someday,
To remember our first night with you.
No more annoying calls,
No more shouting, offending,
No more stomping your feet
You don't need to beg me anymore...
I'm leaving, like the wind left in the field,
I don't want any loud phrases
I just want to be free
Time has already decided everything for us!
Don't tell the future
About who you had in the past.
Don't call me, be quiet
Although I know it will be difficult.
It's hard for me to think that now
I'll be on the list of your exes
And you are on my list for losses,
For those who love, but for those who have grown cold.
You left, closing all the doors behind you,
He said goodbye forever and didn’t say anything.
Played with my meaningless fate.
And only then did he open his eyes!
You were waiting for your feelings to turn into sunset,
You believed that love would end.
You knew that the old impulses would not return!
And I was silent, my blood froze.
Everything happened, but it passed. The heart stopped.
Now I know that we are not on the same path at all,
You will live and not bask in my arms,
And I have a long way to go.
Thank you for the days
What we spent together.
Thank you for the nights
What drove us crazy!
But, alas, it's time for us to part,
And this cannot be avoided.
We are destined to be alone
Probably to while away the time.
I believe you, my dear,
You will find your destiny
And along the road of your life
You will come to your happiness.
One day I will leave and not return...
Not because it won't hurt me,
I'll just gather my courage
And I will be free forever...
And let love not pass so quickly...
I'll burn out! After all, time definitely heals!
And let no one wait for me now...
But it will immediately feel much easier for me...
I'm tired of cruel love,
This is not an easy test...
And don't call me back, -
I'm tired of long waits...
You didn’t love me - your love!
You are selfish! And I, like a victim of hell...
And I swear to you now that again
I don’t need such happiness anymore...
Fate decided everything for us,
And you and I must part.
I'll feel bad without you
And I want to admit this.
I will be waiting for a new meeting,
I won't even sleep at night.
I'll miss you,
After all, my dear, you can’t order your heart.
Vitya!
You're right that you don't want to continue our relationship. I really don't live up to your ideal. You deserve so much better than me. I'm sorry I didn't spend enough time with you. Forgive me for my love, and for the fact that I decided to leave. I don’t know how I did it.
“With you, I was the happiest woman in the world. I remember everything connected with you. I won't forget everything we went through together. It so happened that we would have to part. There is no need to think that something about you has ceased to suit me: you are, as before, ideal. Too perfect for me. You are beautiful.
But we can't be together. Our paths decided to diverge. I reassure myself only by saying that everything that is done is done for the better. You just have to wait for that better one. In general, my best thing is my children. Thanks to fate.
Forgive me for my love, and for the fact that I decided to leave. I don’t know how I did it. And don’t quarrel with your mother because of me: she dreams of you meeting the most wonderful woman on the planet. You know that this is not me. , I don’t know how to cook or manage money. I’m far from the most wonderful. Besides, I demanded too many flowers and gifts from you, without thinking that it costs money. I talk a lot and do little, constantly trying to re-educate you.
I am writing to you not to return our relationship, but to express my gratitude. Thank you for everything you have done for me. For your care, patience and understanding. You are the kindest, sincere and honest person in the world. Thank you for the happiness and pleasure that you gave me, apparently out of pity. Thank you for your daughter, who will sometimes remind you of you. I'm sorry I couldn't respond in kind.
Think about me…. But think all the bad things so you are more likely to be disappointed. I don't want you to suffer. I'm not worth it. Like, in general, any other.
Darling, we were just unlucky. We can't be together. But they were together in the past. So let's try to protect him. I appreciate all the moments and minutes we spent together. Do you value them? Then forgive me and let me go. But so as not to hate me. Hatred is too strong a feeling. Don't test him on me: I'm not worthy.
You'll be happy. Just be optimistic. And don’t consider it a betrayal that I’m not with you now. I did this on purpose so that you would learn to be disappointed in me. Please forgive me. But I can't be with you, knowing how unpleasant I am to your mother. Parents, alas, are not chosen. Respect your mom. As before - Love her. She spent her whole life with you. And I am your lucky coincidence, which, by an unfortunate coincidence, did not suit your mother’s taste. It happens. I don’t wish you harm, I don’t curse you. It’s stupid to compare love for a mother and love for a wife and child. Yes, I don’t want you to compare these two feelings. There is no point in comparison. I am leaving your life so that another will come into it, one that your mother will really like, whom she can love like her own daughter.
Are you surprised? Nothing surprising. I just want, I dream for you to be the happiest. If I am with you, happiness will move aside, because, always, between us and our love, there will be your mother. And you know it."
I finally realized how hard it was for you with me. Thank you for being so good to me despite everything. But don't feel sorry for me anymore. Soon I will learn everything myself.
I have one last request to you: don’t even call me on business. There is no need to reply to this letter either. If you need anything, just write an SMS.
They say that time heals. It's hard for me to believe now, but I can handle it. I wish you happiness.
Catherine
When creating their “we,” it is unlikely that a man or woman thinks that for some reason their unique fairy tale may one day end. However, life sometimes takes turns worse than an experienced slalomist. And now, alas, you have a reason to write a farewell letter to your loved one in your own words. How to do this with dignity?
The art of saying goodbye beautifully
Talking about love relationships, we most often mean the dating stage, “candy and bouquet meetings” and the decision to become a couple. But quarrels and partings are also important milestones of fate, and one cannot do without them. You can find a lot of advice on how to win a man and make him happy, but a scenario for a beautiful end to a relationship is much more difficult to find.
One of these ways to maintain dignity, not to humiliate either the guy or yourself, and not to break into reproaches, hysterics and, perhaps, threats, is a farewell letter to your beloved man in your own words. It can move you to tears, cause indignation or indifference (this, unfortunately, also happens), but one thing is certain: thoughts formulated in writing will be recorded and clearly structured. This means that the former other half will have the opportunity to read them more than once (or even more than twice!), comprehend and draw conclusions. Not only will you be able to avoid an unpleasant scene of a showdown, but you will also save face in your own eyes (of course: deciding to write requires no less courage than saying the same thing tête-à-tête!).
Laws of the genre
In love, as you know, there are no laws. But in composing farewell letters there is! Moreover, many of them have a precedent basis, that is, they are chosen for a specific situation that has developed in a couple and caused the need to come up with a similar essay. Here are some important aspects:
- brevity is the soul of wit. The peculiarity of male perception is that they do not recognize lengthy messages. So try to express everything you have in mind briefly and succinctly;
- plan. Of course, a farewell letter is not school essay, but the structure and consistency of presentation are just as important here. Therefore, you should not start with the words “We are no longer together. Period,” since it is quite possible that after this the recipient will not want to continue reading. It is better if at the beginning there is something that will attract his attention other than the very fact of receiving a letter from you. This could be some kind of affectionate address, a quote or a brief (after all, we are writing about a breakup, not confessing) description of our own feelings;
- literacy. No comments;
- taboo on swearing. You should not humiliate yourself or him by stooping to insults. Even if he committed a very unseemly act. Even if you really want to. Then it’s better to meet and talk “from the heart”;
- decor. A pen with ink of one rich color, a smooth sheet of good paper and no drawings in the margins - in this regard, the genre has very strict rules.
Examples of letters for different situations
How many couples there are, so many reasons for separation: betrayal, insults, thoughtless words... So it is impossible to come up with one template suitable for all situations. Unless you just write “Goodbye”. However, our task is not just to report the breakup, but also to do it beautifully. So you'll have to try.
If you quit
Writing a letter if you are the initiator of the termination of the relationship may seem like a simple undertaking. But it is not so. It is necessary not only to adequately justify such a decision, but also to present everything in such a way that an already offended man does not become even more offended.
- “You are a gift I don't deserve. Is not beautiful words, this prevents me from sleeping and doing my usual things. But it so happened that we had to part. I don’t want you to be hurt, although I know what will happen... Don’t be angry with me and forgive me. Goodbye".
- Sometimes people are separated by kilometers, and then you have to write a letter in your own words to a loved one who is at a distance. "What could be more painful than being hurt? to a loved one? Probably nothing. I'm sorry for the pain, for the words that hurt, but we need to part. You can't build relationships at a distance, that's not for me. May I suggest we remain friends and hope for a positive response?”
If the initiator is he
A farewell letter to a beloved man who abandoned him is a controversial matter. On the one hand, it is clear that you are no longer together, but on the other hand, you have the right to present your vision of the situation, without even hoping to return your lover.
- “I know you don't love me. But for the sake of everything that happened between us, I want to say that I will not forget this time. I hope that in life you will have a worthy woman next to you, and I will meet my one and only man. Be happy. Goodbye".
- “How difficult it is to say goodbye! That’s why I chose this way to talk to you, my recently-favorite! You left, nothing connects us, but for the sake of what happened between us, I want to say that I don’t hold a grudge against you. Be happy. Just let's agree to do everything not to meet again. We shouldn’t give our passion a reason to flare up with new strength, because then it will definitely hurt ... "
If the reason is treason
This is the most common reason why a woman writes: “I would not like to start by asking for forgiveness, especially since I know that you will not forgive. I’m guilty before you, and there are no words of excuse, but if you can, forgive and be happy.”
When he breaks the oath of allegiance, you should not make the letter a list of reproaches. You can express all the negativity to your girlfriend over a glass of wine, but the message has a different purpose - to inform about the breakup. “I hope she’s better than me, I hope you really love her and won’t regret betraying us!” Do not see you again!".
In this bustling world, one day two halves meet - He and She. Each couple has its own scenario for the development of relationships: a love story begins, unfolds and, sadly, comes to an end.
There are many reasons for separation: misunderstandings, accumulated grievances, betrayal, and simply a feeling that the relationship has reached a dead end.
Almost all stories have a beautiful beginning, but not everyone is able to put a beautiful end to it. It’s difficult to gather your thoughts and say calmly: “I’m sorry, we need to break up.” The voice may tremble treacherously, and tears will flow from the eyes.
If separation is inevitable and you are thinking “how to break up with a guy without offending him?”, try writing a farewell letter to your boyfriend or beloved man.
Girls, of course, are delicate creatures, but often they are the ones who take the courage and say the last “Goodbye”. It's much easier to talk about a breakup in writing.
You can write the message in your own words or use the samples that we have prepared for you.
Farewell letter examples
For example, this:
“Hello, bunny. You will probably be surprised that I am writing you a letter. We are used to talking to you. True, lately all our conversations end in quarrels. I thought for a long time, understood myself, analyzed our relationship and realized: this cannot continue.
I have already forgiven you. And goodbye!
Farewell letter to the man you love
“Darling, good, beloved! I pulled myself together and decided to write to you in a letter everything that I could not express in words when we met. Our love has turned into some kind of one-sided ugly entity. I see that my efforts to improve relationships are leading nowhere.
You rarely call and perceive our meetings as a heavy duty. I’m not made of stone, and I feel it all. It hurts, it’s hard, I won’t pretend to be strong. I will cry, miss and worry about you.
But, so be it, I’m letting you go free. Fly towards your happiness. Unfortunately, I couldn't make you happy. May everything work out for you with another girl. Maybe you already have someone, but you’re afraid to say it. Fly, my dear, fly!
I'm letting you go. Forever. Goodbye!"
Farewell letter to a man who offended
"Hi baby. I am writing you a farewell message in prose. There is not enough mental strength for poetry and rhymes. My strength left along with the tears, which I stopped with great difficulty in order to put an end to our story.
We began to quarrel often and say hurtful words to each other. We became strangers and incomprehensible to each other. The hands have ceased to be affectionate, there are no former strong hugs and... there is nothing at all.
Let's admit to each other that our love has turned into nothing, we destroyed it with our efforts. My resentment is too great to continue the relationship.
We are parting. Sorry and goodbye!"
Farewell letter to the man who cheated
"My dear! How difficult it is for me to gather my thoughts and tell you everything. Even in a letter, when you don’t see my tear-stained face. I know that you betrayed me. No not like this. You betrayed our love, our beautiful days and nights. Your action showed that I mean absolutely nothing to you.
Apparently I've become your habit. You call out of habit, you come out of habit, and you even apologize out of habit. You manage to do this somehow insensitively and insincerely. Why do we need extra problems? We both need to change something in our lives. You've already started.
Have a nice journey, dear! I forgive you and let you go. Forever."
Farewell letter to ex
"Hi Hi! I don’t even know how to contact you now. Your heart beats and shouts to you “beloved”, “dear”, “only”, and your mind sobers up and says “former” about you. Yes, you were a wonderful, wonderful moment in my life. Now it seems that everything was a dream. Morning came and our love dissolved.
After our separation, days and nights ceased to exist for me. I lived as if in some impenetrable fog. But the heavenly forces have had mercy, the fog is slowly dissolving, I see the outlines of the horizon. This means that I live and breathe deeply again.
You may no longer be in my reality, but no one will tear you out of my heart. Memories of our meetings will always warm and encourage me. Forgive me for all. Remember us. There was love. Goodbye!"
Farewell letter to my beloved husband
“My dear, dear man. Life has decreed that you and I have turned from two halves into two loneliness. I think about you every minute, my heart lives only with you. How did it happen that we are breaking up?
Do you remember our first meeting - our burning eyes, excitement and unquenchable desire to be together. Do you remember our days and nights? Do you remember how we missed each other?
Is love really doomed to death, like all living things in this world? If I love, how can you not love? This is somehow wrong, unfair. The feelings must be mutual.
Maybe you have been overwhelmed by so many problems that you have stopped hearing the voice of your heart? I will pray to heaven that your heart will be freed from captivity, that love will be resurrected in your soul. I wish you goodness, light, warmth and, of course, love!
I'm sorry. And goodbye!
Farewell letter to a married man
“Good, not my man. How difficult it is to write a letter to someone you still love! I had no right to fall in love with you, but I could not resist the surging feelings. It's surprising that you couldn't resist either.
I don’t know what to call our relationship, but it was beautiful, like a dream. As sad as it is, the time has come for both of us to wake up, look into each other's eyes for the last time, embrace each other for the last time and part.
You are married, return to your family, gather your strength and solve all the problems that have befallen you like a man. At first it will probably be difficult, you will rush back, but this is a path to nowhere. The wonderful dream dissolved in the rays of the clear sun, it was time to face reality.
Be happy with the one who is your legal wife. After all, you loved her once. I wish you reunion, understanding, warmth and light. I no longer want to be the cause of your quarrels and pain.
Forgive me and let me go"
Farewell letter to the man who left
"My love! I'm sorry, I can't call you anything else, because I love you and will always love you. It hurts me, I'm offended to the point of tears. Burning tears are what keep me warm in these last days and weeks. And before, your hands and lips warmed me.
My heart rejoiced and did not believe in my happiness. It beat like a free bird, ready to burst out of the chest. And now it beats dully and doomedly, as if forever imprisoned.
Why did you go away? He didn’t explain anything, didn’t say goodbye, didn’t hug. He just disappeared from my life and that’s it. I can’t believe that life goes on and you’re not there and won’t be there anymore. I believe in a miracle that you will come to your senses and want to return. Know, my dear, that I will always open my arms to meet you. I will be faithful to you until the end of my days.
Remember this. And be happy!
Farewell letter to a man you don't love
"Dear friend! I am glad that I met you on the path of life. You are wonderful, sincere, interesting person. You know how to love and look after beautifully. I'm sorry I can't reciprocate your feelings. My heart does not respond to the call of your heart. You can probably guess this yourself.
I can't date you anymore and continue this deception. Thank you for the love and warmth that you generously give, but believe me, I am not the one who will reciprocate your feelings. Let's part as friends before our relationship reaches a dead end. Keep this farewell letter and remember that I was honest with you.
Forgive me a hundred thousand times and let me go once. Goodbye!"
It is difficult to decide and send a goodbye letter to a guy, even if it has already been written. In any case, it is better to throw out your pain and resentment on paper than in the face of your loved one.
Who knows, maybe this message will take your relationship to a new level, help resolve accumulated misunderstandings and mend faltering relationships. Be happy!
A beautiful farewell letter
The reasons for breakups are different: misunderstandings, resentments that have accumulated gradually, betrayal, or simply the feeling that love is gone. Lots of stories a good start, not everyone is able to leave love, put an end to it. It’s hard to take your thoughts into a fist and say: “Sorry, we need to break up.”
At this moment, the voice may tremble slightly, and tears may flow. If you still have to break up, then you should try to write a farewell letter to your loved one. Girls are fragile creatures, however, at times they have to pull themselves together and say goodbye. It’s easier to do it in this form, although it’s difficult.
Farewell letter to a beloved man
Forgive me, dear, that I cannot express everything to your face. I'm worried that I won't be able to search the right words. I thought of writing a farewell letter. You know very well that I have always loved you. Every day I think about those moments spent together, your frequent calls. At that time I felt like the happiest person in the world. I would give anything now just to recreate that time.
I will miss your mighty and gentle hands, feel sad behind your gaze, and also want to find yourself in your arms again. I think about the time we spent together every day. Our first meeting is in my thoughts.
Sorry, but we have to part ways. Warm memories of us will remain in my head.
Last letter to my beloved man
I never thought that you do not strive to value our feelings and relationships. Previously, we understood each other perfectly. I wonder if we have at least a drop of love left or if we need to start life from scratch.
After all, you feel that my love belongs to you. Your constant calls, our first date will be remembered for a long time. I'm not going to be indifferent to our relationship. I talked so little about my love. I was always worried that the fairy tale would end. I will always remember you. You are forever in my heart.
How to Write a Farewell Letter to Tears
There are always thoughts in my head about our meeting, about your stories and calls. The most important thing for me is that you are my beloved man, but I am not the one you need. If everything is as I say, at least say something, because separation is becoming more and more difficult. Whatever decision you make, I will accept everything.
A beautiful farewell letter from my wife
“My dear husband! I was finally able to pull myself together and decide to write you a letter in which I wanted to express my feelings. Our love has turned into something else. It doesn't help that I try to turn our life into a fairy tale. You stopped calling, our meetings became rare. You must understand that I am a girl and I feel everything.
It became difficult for me to pretend. Let me cry and worry, but I will try to get through it. I want to let you go, be free. I'm sorry that I couldn't make you the happiest person. May everything be fine with you and the other one. Sorry, goodbye!"
Farewell letter to an ex-man
With you I began to be able to love. You taught me to enjoy every moment. Throughout our relationship, you have become a part of my soul. Every day next to you, I will remember. I realize that tomorrow I won’t see you, I won’t touch you, I won’t smell you. It hurts me that you won't be around.
I realized that you are mine. You didn't want to change for me. And I, in turn, am not going to wait long. I don’t want to suffer and worry anymore, I hope you receive this letter and read it.
Farewell letter from a mistress to a married man
“Beloved, but not my man. It's difficult for me to write these lines. I shouldn't have loved you, but I couldn't restrain myself. Surprisingly, you couldn’t resist me either. Our relationship was like a sweet dream.
But no matter how bitter it may be, we have to part ways with you. You are a married man, I am not going to destroy your family. At first it will be difficult and difficult for us, but it is necessary to do this for our own benefit. Be happy with the one you call your wife. You loved her before, you can love her again. I don't want to cause any more suffering. Sorry, I'm leaving"
Letter to the man who abandoned
"My dear! Sorry, I can’t call you anything else, because I love you. Now I feel resentment to the depths of my soul. Previously, your hands warmed me, now bitter tears of resentment and disappointment. Previously, my heart rejoiced.
Now it’s like he’s been ripped out of his chest. You left without really explaining anything. He just disappeared. Sorry, I'm not ready to forgive you, even if you want to come back. Be happy".
Letter to the man who offended
"Hi sunshine. I decided to write my last message in prose. I have no strength for poetry and rhymes. They left with tears that I could hardly stop, it’s time to put an end to it.
We started arguing and saying offensive things. We have become strangers. Let's admit that love has turned into emptiness, we have destroyed it. We're going our separate ways. Sorry!"
